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How Lola brought charm from Ijebu to Nnewi
When Emeka broke the news to his parents that he planned to marry a Yoruba lady, they told him that he was a joker. That would never happen, they said flatly. Was there a scarcity of nubile damsels in Nnewi and its environs or in Anambra State and the entire Igboland that their son would travel across many rivers and many states to marry a Yoruba girl from Ijebu-Ode? Or, had the girl bewitched Emeka with “otumokpo” from Ijebu-Ode? She would not succeed, they concluded. Never! Weeks after that, nothing was heard about the issue again. They assumed that the case had been closed. Emeka had come to his senses, they concluded. But had he? Two months later, like a bad dream, Emeka brought up the issue of this Ijebu girl again! This time, his tone was firm. Despite the threats of the parents, he was not cowed. He was resolute to the point of obstinacy. Even the tears of his mother did not move him. His parents concluded their son was indeed under a spell. When it became obvious, after many months of dialogue, pressure, threats, pleas, tears and quarrels that Emeka was hell-bent on marrying Lola, his parents grudgingly gave their consent, but the father warned that nobody should run to him if the marriage went awry. The father also refused to accompany him to Ijebu-Ode for the marriage rites, saying that as an elder, it was a taboo for him to travel far away from home. It did not matter that a few months before the marriage rites, he had travelled through Ijebu-Ode on his way to Lagos. Not only his parents were against the marriage: Out of Emeka’s three brothers and two sisters, only his younger sister was on his side. But Emeka overlooked all that and went ahead with the marriage. When Lola came into the family, it was obvious that she was not welcomed. She was just being tolerated. Matters were not helped by the fact that Emeka had recently relocated his architecture business from Lagos to Nnewi, to take advantage of the burgeoning building industry in the town. And even though he had built his own house, it was within the same compound where his parents lived. It was a large compound: All the four sons had their portions of land within the compound, even though two of them were not based at home. Another handicap Lola had was language: Igbo was the language of the family, but Lola spoke only English and Yoruba. So, Lola began forcing herself to speak Igbo. Any time she uttered an Igbo word or sentence, people would laugh. But her determination and sense of humour impressed everyone. She also did something that nobody around her did: she curtsied or knelt down when greeting elders, especially her husband’s parents, no matter how hard they protested against such acts. That act and her accent marked her out as a Yoruba, which made people treat her like an egg and call her “Iyawo.” Most mornings, Lola would go early to the quarters of her husband’s parents, greet them, tidy up their rooms and collect their clothes for washing. She would ensure that Papa and Mama had their meals. She asked her mother in-law to teach her how to cook all local meals. Mama was eager to teach her, and she learnt fast. Any time Papa or Mama complained of backache, rheumatism or fever, Lola ensured that they got medical treatment. Most evenings, she would spend some time with them, either alone or in the company of her husband, before retiring to bed. Her brother in-law’s wife sneered that she was shamelessly trying to buy love with her boot-licking tactics. But Lola was not bothered about that. Less than a year after Lola came into the family, the music changed. Emeka’s parents, especially the father, never completed a sentence without mentioning “Iyawo.” He would tell anyone who cared to listen, including the wives of his other three sons, that if it was not for Iyawo, he would have long died. Today, Lola speaks Igbo, or rather Nnewi, like a daughter of the soil. As far as Emeka’s parents are concerned, “Iyawo” can do no wrong. Even when Emeka complains about her before his parents, they will not let him finish before warning him never to do anything that will hurt that “peace-loving girl.” Unknown to everyone, before Lola left her parents’ home, she fortified herself for any eventuality, having known that her husband’s family were not happy about the marriage. Her parents had also done all they could to dissuade her from marrying an Igbo man, but their words fell on her like water on the back of a duck. So she knew she had a major battle to face in her new home. Failure was not an option, for if the marriage failed or proved unhappy, her parents would give her the I-told-you treatment. Consequently, before leaving for Nnewi, she boiled herself in a pot of charm. Then, she etched the charm on her face, tongue and heart. The power in the charm was meant to automatically make anyone around her to like her. Anyone she smiled at or talked to was meant to be charmed by her. What is the name of that charm and how much does it cost? The name of the charm is simple: Genuine love for others. It costs nothing to buy. No medicine-man is needed to prepare or administer it. It has no overdose. Everyone can prepare it. Everyone can administer it: At home, in the office, on the street, in the market. Its result on people is magical. Nobody can resist its effect, including “wicked mothers in-law” and “impossible bosses.” Fortunately, it is available in all parts of the world: In Ijebu-Ode or Nnewi, Zaria or Ikot-Ekpene, New York or Kabul. Brides and brides-to-be must realise that even though in-laws may seem difficult to deal with, they are human beings with flesh and blood. Parents – especially mothers – want to cling to their sons as long as possible. Parents are naturally suspicious and even envious of “an outsider” – who did not participate in bearing, nurturing and raising of their child – coming to take that child away. To them, the wife is a stranger who may have a selfish agenda to destroy the peace, unity and love existing in that family. It is the duty of the wife not to breeze into the family with an antagonistic stance. Rather, she should reassure her in-laws – through her words and actions – that she has not come to “take away” their son and brother or to destabilise the family, but that she has come in – like a new baby born into the family – to increase the family’s love, peace, unity and happiness. Everybody wants to be loved, appreciated and respected. When love is shown (over a period of time) to even untamed animals like the bear, leopard, chimpanzee, hyena, etc, they respond with friendliness. Human beings have the capacity to even respond better than animals when shown love. The rule in all human relations is that you get what you give. If you smile a lot at people, you receive smiles. If you are cold to people, you receive coldness and more. If you love to help others, you receive help and love. Therefore, those who go about demanding and expecting love, care, and respect from others may get disappointed, but those who first give love, care, and respect to others usually receive them manyfold. Showing genuine love to others is a potent charm that works like magic.
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Modern Feminism - ABIMBOLA PAIGE S.F
Feminism "according to Wikitionary" is a social theory or political movement arguing that legal and social restrictions on females must be removed in order to bring about equality of both sexes in all aspects of public and private life. Feminism is concerned with bringing about equality of opportunity and outcome regardless of gender. Modern feminism is taking a different toll, making it seem like women are weak and are only victims of men's oppression and violence. It fails to encourage women to embrace their strength and the consequences of their own choices or decisions. Let's not play anyone's victim. Men who forces women to have sex with them are evil, violent and abusive but that is no reason to take the wrong turn in life. I believe in equality for everyone regardless of sex, race, sexuality, language, height et cetera but I do not want to be addressed, treated or judged according to my gender first before considering my success, achievements and so forth.
generally believed to be against women and has
made it seem okay to violate, abuse, rape or oppress men. Women are not the only sex being oppressed; some men, usually boys, are being violated too but nobody pays much attention to it because men are believed to be strong and able to care for themselves, forgetting that we are all humans and we all require attention regardless of our sexes, race or sexuality. Rape is a sin against humanity and it'll be selfish of us (women) to limit our concern to females and not acknowledge the pain of the male victims too. Feminism is not a war/fight against men, it is a fight
for equality of opportunity, affection, outcome et
cetera for both sexes.
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Get Glo Bis 3GB of 1K and Enjoying Surfing with Your Android Phones and PC
Earlier last month, I made a post on how to use Glo Bis on Non Blackberry Devices, but unfortunately only few people were benefited while it wasted other people's money. Today I am happy to tell you that we have found an everlasting solution to it. Android users can now enjoy Glo Bis of 3GB on their phone and it also works for PC with the aid of tethering.

To Subscribe for Glo Bis of 3GB at 1K
Text “COMonth” without quote to 777 at N1000/month (3GB plan)
Their are Two Method to make it Work on Android Phone
Method 1 To Use Glo Bis On Android Phone
Make sure you subscribe to it on a blackberry phone, Use it to browse with that blackberry for some minute before you remove the SIM, Then Insert that SIM to your Android phone.Configure the APN of your Android phone with blackberry.net and activate it as your default setting.Switch on your data connection (H won't display yet).Off your Android phone again and remove the SIM (make sure the APN is set to blackberry.net ).Insert the SIM to BB phone again (make sure it’s on 3G also and it display BB sign beside it)Browse for some mins (download if possible)The return it back to your Android phone and keep surfing.
Method 2 To Use Glo Bis On Android Phone
The second method is nothing related to the above. It's tweaking your IMEI Method.
This involves change the Android IMEI to Blackerry one and it is a sure method that make it work flawlessly and you won’t need to worry over Glo bis on Android phone anymore; but it’s very risky because it can brick your phone and the method is only recommend for Advance users only.
To Generate Blackberry IMEI For Your Android Phone
Download This Software to your PC hereUnrar the file, copy and paste the three .sys files inside the folder to your C:\Windowsfolder
Double click on GIPv4.1 to openClick on generate IMEI. Copy down the blackberry IMEI you see without the pin except you have an ulterior motive.
How to Change Your Android Phone IMEI Number To Blackberry
Disclaimer: Changing of IMEI is illegal in some countries, and I will not be held responsible for any consequences that befall the changer.
Also, backup your original imei incase anything goes wrong then revert using the above procedures for changing.
Before you begin, backup your Android phone usingClockworkMod Recovery (CWM) should in case it get bricked.
There are two ways you can easily get this IMEI changing done which are Mobile Uncle and Terminal Emulator.
To Change IMEI Number Through Terminal Emulator of Android Phone-Tab
For Single Sim Device
1. Your phone must be a Rooted Device
2. Download Terminal Emulator from Play Store
3. Open Android Terminal Emulator
4. Type SU then press ENTER button to get Superuser permmison
3. After that, type this command then press ENTER buttonecho ‘AT+EGMR=1,7,”IMEI_NUMBER”‘ >/dev/pttycmd1
or echo AT+EGMR=1*7*IMEI_1 >/dev/pttycmd1
For Dual Sim Phones
1. Rooted Android phone or tablet.
2. Install Android Terminal Emulator app
3. Open Android Terminal Emulator.
4. Type SU then press ENTER
5. Type the following command then Eneter echo ‘AT+EGMR=1,7, “IMEI_NUMBER” ‘ >/dev/pttycmd1
6. If your phone is dual-sim, typ this command then ENTER echo ‘AT+EGMR=1,10, “IMEI_NUMBER” ‘ >/dev/pttycmd1
7. Last step, reboot your phone/tablet and done.
Second Way of Changing IMEI
This works best for some MTK devices, click herefor intensive procedures.
That is all.
Can I Activate Glo Bis on My Android After Changing My IMEI?
You can do that but It’s more advisable to subscribe on blackberry device before inserting it on your Android device.
How To Use Glo Bis on PC and iPhone/iPad
This will only work on PC and iPhone/iPad through tethering with the Hotspot on your phone.
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How to root Samsung galaxy s6 edge!
There hasn't rooting tool for Samsung Galaxy S6 or S6 Edge couple of months ago. At this moment you have PingPong Root to root Samsung Galaxy S6/S6 Edge without tripping KNOX on your device.
What is Tripping KNOX?
KNOX is one of security platform for Samsung android devices which assures that no changes have been made to the android system partitions and also no potential security susceptibilities have been created by the user. If you try to make changes of system-level files, immediately it detected by KNOX, a hardware fuse is tripped. Once it's been tripped, you cannot reset it. It will directly affect to your Galaxy S6 or S6 Edge warranty. After tripped KNOX, you cannot able to use Samsung pay which "Groundbreaking Mobile Payment Service". Now, you have no reason to be afraid because thanks to the PingPong Root.
Step 1: Make Sure Your ROM Version Is Supported. (You can check all the supported ROM version from our homepage PingPong Root)
Step 2: Install PingPong Root &SuperSU apk on your device. If your ROM version compatible for the PingPong root, you can root your Galaxy S6 successfully. Before starting you need to make sure that "Unknown Sources" option is enabled. Go to the"Settings > Lock Screen and security > Unknown Sources ON".
After that, you are ready to install PingPong root on your device. DownloadPingPong Root APK from our download page.
Launch PingPong root after the download complete, then tap on, "INSTALL" button. After that you will asked for the permission. Tick the box, then tap on "Install Anyway" to proceed.
After the installation, tap "OPEN" wait couple of seconds and it will prompt a new message to install SuperSu. Therefore, tap "INSTALL" button again. After the installation, press "DONE" button to go back to PingPong Root.
Step 3: Let's start Root your device. You will find 2 button on the PingPong root app. "Get root!" and "Download Data". At the 1st Step, if your Galaxy S6 or S6 Edge ROM version was listed in the download data section, you must have to download the additional data. To do that tap on "Download Data" button. Once it's done press OK.
Now, you are ready to root your device. Tap, "Get root!" button to start rooting your galaxy S6. Wait couple of seconds to get rooted. After root done press OKand reboot your device immediately.
Step 4: Update your SuperSU binaries when you get back. Open SuperSU and press "Continue" to update SuperUser binaries of your device.
After that, it will prompt a message to update SuperSU binary. Chose "Normal" option. It will take couple of seconds to update your SuperSU binaries. When it has done reboot your device again.
Step 5: After rebooting your deviceVerify Root. Congratulations! You have successfully fully rooted your Galaxy S6/Edge using PingPong Root. Most important one is you have done it without tripping KNOX. To verify everything, download Root Checkerfrom the Play Store
Finally, you'll see this result.
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Tree Crushes Vehicle at the Legon University of Ghana Campus (Photos)
A vehicle with registration number GE-3414-13 on Thursday had its bonnet and engine crushed by a tree at the University of Ghana campus.
The vehicle according to some students was parked in the shade of the tree when the incident happened.
No casualty was however recorded but made it impossible for other cars to use the road.
Though the cause of the incident was not immediately known, some of the students blamed it on a pipe leakage at the place which they say has been left unchecked for close to a month hence weakening the roots of the tree.
The vehicle according to some of the students is believed to be for a staff of the University.
Security personnel are currently on the ground to ensure the area is cleared.


